Admiration vs attraction

” Any man can admire a beautiful woman , but it takes a true gentle man to make his woman look beautiful and admirable ” . 

The above quote snatched my attention and threw me into the graves of deep thoughts. I wondered is it every woman’s wish just to be approved by the society because of her appearance or does it actually hold beneath a strong desire of gaining approval because of their qualities. Would they love to be just a piece of attraction for men in general or would it be more satisfying for them to hear words of praises for what their nature upholds. Would they find it more appalling if a man finds merely pleasure in her or rather bestows her with worldly pleasures . Sitting on the couch I wonder ,if every man can actually read those hidden emotions and urges of the women. If they can actually understand it’s more than just attraction is what they actually need . No , attraction is not something to feel loathed about ; rather I would say embrace it wholeheartedly.But , let it not overwhelm you . Let it not be the only parameter to judge the worth of a woman .  Well man , is this how you would want your girl or women to be viewed by your other male friends or the society in general. If not ,then why be a part of unethical emotions rather , why not take your wisdom to a higher level . Let not get yourself sunk into the plethora of not so aesthetically sound emotions . Let attraction take a backseat with respect to admiration. 

 Now , let’s do a role reversal and apply the above notions accordingly for man.l et man be the showpiece and subject of undivided stares and gazes from women. Let Beauty be at its highest level and knowledge be just the opposite. Let beauty alone define the depth of human worth . Then where would our self esteem hold a place ? Or rather I might say would there be any place left for our self esteem . Would human values be vital anymore ? Would not racism find the most comfortable seat in this whole scenerio ? And ultimately , will we , ourselves ,the educated lot be not responsible enough to contribute to the increasing crimes in the society ? 

The need is to build a mentality which would value human values over the physical appearance of an individual . Admiration needs a priority over attraction , for both men and women. Let humans not get dissolved under obsolete desires and thus save the society from getting doomed .